"Deficit of courtesy and good manners in society today" - DCU President speaks at DCU graduation
-10 November 2008

Speaking at today's graduation ceremonies, Ferdinand von Prondzynski said that it is becoming increasingly obvious that there is a deficit of courtesy and good behaviour in society today.

"It has become common to see groups of people - often young men - gathering in groups and terrorising local communities. We see people driving cars who, while they are polite and considerate in their normal lives, become maniacs behind the wheel, showing aggression and recklessness. And we see people's behaviour with mobile phones in public places, clearly unconcerned about the disturbance or irritation caused to others.

"The UK Independent newspaper picked up this theme after incidents recently with Jonathan Ross and Russell Brand, saying in an editorial: 'Exactly what has happened to good manners and basic courtesy? And isn't it time they made a return?'

"Manners are an important element in the idea of a community - concern for and solidarity with others, and showing mutual respect. But we now treat the concept of manners as outdated, and maybe even vaguely embarrassing. Real manners are about respect and empathy, and support for community building.

"A study carried out recently in America also shows that people living in an environment where they do not practise or experience courtesy have greater health problems and a lower life expectancy.

"However, there needs to be a social framework which supports manners and etiquette. We can't complain about young hooligans if we are doing nothing to create social spaces for them. We no longer systematically provide youth clubs and other places where they can mix without this becoming threatening. We cannot just blame offenders if we are failing to provide the necessary supports".

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