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Supporting Employees Navigating Pregnancy Loss and Fertility Treatment: Guidance for Employees
Supporting Employees Navigating Pregnancy Loss and Fertility Treatment
DCU is dedicated to fostering a workplace culture of psychological safety, empathy, and inclusivity. We recognise that experiencing the loss of a pregnancy or building a family is deeply personal, and we are committed to providing the flexibility and compassion our people need to prioritise their health and well-being without fear of career detriment.
This guidance document is designed to equip you with understanding and utilising the provisions within the Pregnancy Loss and Fertility Treatment Leave Policy. Please review this in conjunction with DCU’s Pregnancy Loss and Fertility Leave Policy.
Understanding the Context
Pregnancy loss is deeply personal and affects people in different ways. The impact is not limited to those physically experiencing the loss; partners and family members can also be affected.
For those physically experiencing the loss, they may have physical effects such as pain, severe bleeding, and fainting/collapse. At times, pregnancy loss may require medical or surgical intervention that may have additional side-effects or present further implications.
Psychological distress during and after a pregnancy loss can manifest in different ways. People may develop sleep problems, may find it hard to concentrate or feel motivated, may find social interactions more difficult, and may experience increased levels of anxiety and mood swings.
Pregnancy loss can be felt as a bereavement, regardless of how early it occurs. This can lead to significant upset, grief and anger. People may suffer in silence or experience ‘disenfranchised grief’ whereby they feel their grief is minimised or not fully acknowledged.
It is equally important to acknowledge that some people do not experience profound grief and may feel ok, or even a sense of relief, after a pregnancy loss. This can occur for many reasons, such as an unplanned pregnancy, feeling unready for a child, or a pregnancy that was complicated by severe medical concerns or personal stress. Those who feel ok may experience guilt, confusion, or a different kind of isolation, feeling as though they are reacting wrongly. There is no correct way to feel; a neutral, accepting, or relieved response is just as valid a part of the human experience as grief.
In Ireland, approximately one in six heterosexual couples experience fertility challenges, while many others, including same-sex couples and single individuals, rely on fertility treatments, assisted human reproduction (AHR), surrogacy, or adoption to start their families.
Fertility treatment (such as IVF/ICSI, IUI, or egg freezing) is rarely a straightforward path. It is often a physically demanding and emotionally exhausting medical process characterised by:
- Unpredictable Timelines: Clinic appointments are dictated by biological markers and often scheduled at very short notice (sometimes less than 24 hours). Depending on the nature of the appointment, it may require both partners to attend.
- Physical Toll: Side effects from intensive hormone injections or medications can cause severe fatigue, mood changes, and physical discomfort.
- High Stress: The emotional and financial stakes can be incredibly high, and balancing treatment with work and other life responsibilities can be challenging, often leading to increased stress, anxiety or depression.
Fertility journeys vary in length, in the number of treatments, in the side effects experienced and can be very individualised. The average number of cycles someone will undertake in order to achieve a successful pregnancy/live birth is 3 cycles. This is, of course, dependent on a wide range of factors including but not limited to age, egg and/or sperm quality, and general health.
This can impact an employee in terms of their day-to-day experience in the workplace and navigating their careers during this period. In recognising this, DCU has created this policy and toolkit as a mechanism for providing ongoing support and flexibility to those that need it.
Understanding Policy Provisions
Pregnancy Loss: What am I entitled to?
- Employees who physically experience a pregnancy loss up to and including 23 weeks of pregnancy are entitled to up to 10 days paid leave during and/or immediately following the loss.
- If a loss (stillbirth) occurs from 24 weeks onward, statutory maternity/paternity rights apply instead. Please refer to the DCU Maternity Leave or Paternity Leave policies for information.
- The University also provides support to partners of those who experience pregnancy loss. This includes access to counselling services and existing flexible leave options for employees who may need time off to care for their own well-being or to provide support to their partners.
- Other supports are in place for those experiencing a pregnancy loss. This includes flexible working schedules for a defined period during or immediately after the loss or upon return from pregnancy loss leave (e.g. availing of remote working periods, flexi start and end times).
How do I apply for pregnancy loss leave?
We acknowledge that for many, a pregnancy loss will be unexpected and leave may need to be taken at very short notice. In recognition of this, we are seeking to make this leave provision as simple as possible for the employee to take.
Full details on availing of this leave can be found in the Pregnancy Loss Application Process.
Below is a quick guide to support you:
- Notify your line manager as soon as practicable that you need to take pregnancy loss leave.
- Provide supporting documentation to DCU People: a letter/certificate from your GP, consultant, or clinic confirming the loss.
- Submit via DCU People Helpdesk: select the Sick Leave category so it's routed correctly; your documents are held securely and confidentially (GDPR compliant).
- State how many days you need: up to a maximum of 10 days paid leave. You don't have to take the full amount if you don't need it.
- Your record is updated confidentially: this leave is tracked separately from your sick leave balance.
- Need more time? You can use annual leave, sick leave, or a leave of absence for any additional days.
Fertility Treatment: What am I entitled to?
- Employees undergoing fertility treatment are entitled to up to 10 days paid leave per cycle, with an overall maximum leave of 30 days during the course of employment. This can be taken as part-days or full-days and in blocks or as separate leave days, where required.
- Other supports are in place for those undergoing fertility treatment. This includes flexible working schedules for a defined period, and with consideration for team demands and the nature of the employee’s role (e.g. availing of remote working periods, flexi start and end times).
How do I apply for fertility treatment leave?
Full details on availing of this leave can be found in the Fertility Leave Application Process.
Below is a quick guide to support you:
- Agree leave dates with your line manager: as far in advance as possible.
- Provide supporting documentation: a letter/certificate from your fertility clinic/consultant, submitted at the start of each treatment cycle.
- Submit via DCU People Helpdesk: select the Sick Leave category so it's routed correctly; your documents are held securely and confidentially (GDPR compliant).
- New cycle? New letter: a fresh letter/certificate is required for each additional fertility cycle undertaken.
- Core Portal is updated: once your certificate is received, DCU People Services activates the Fertility Leave option on Core and adds a balance of 10 days per cycle. You don't have to use the full 10 days if you don't need them.
- Request leave through Core Portal: approved by your line manager. Up to 10 days per cycle, with no limit on the number of cycles — but an overall total cap of 30 days.
- Unused days? Let DCU People know once treatment concludes so any unused balance can be removed.
- Need more time? You can use annual leave, sick leave (e.g. for medically certified procedures), or a leave of absence for any additional days.
How the 30-day maximum works in practice
An employee can request fertility leave for as many treatment cycles as they need,there's no cap on the number of cycles. However, the total amount of fertility leave available across an employee's entire employment is capped at 30 days.
Example 1:
- Cycle 1: Employee takes 10 days → 10 days used, 20 days remaining
- Cycle 2: Employee takes 10 days → 20 days used, 10 days remaining
- Cycle 3: Employee takes 10 days → 30 days used, 0 days remaining
Example 2:
- Cycle 1: Employee takes 5 days → 5 days used, 25 days remaining
- Cycle 2: Employee takes 10 days → 15 days used, 15 days remaining
- Cycle 3: Employee takes 5 days → 20 days used, 10 days remaining
- Cycle 4: Employee takes 5 days → 25 days used, 5 days remaining
- Cycle 5: Employee takes 5 days → 30 days used, 0 days remaining
Best Practices for Supportive Conversations
Disclosure & Confidentiality
Disclosing a pregnancy loss or a fertility journey can make an employee feel vulnerable. This kind of disclosure asks an employee to bring something deeply personal into a professional space, often at a moment when they're already grieving or under strain. It's reasonable for employees to worry about how the information will be received, who else might find out, and whether it will change how colleagues or managers see them. This policy and toolkit is seeking to ensure a supportive and open-minded environment where disclosure is treated sensitively.
Information regarding an employee's fertility journey or pregnancy loss is highly confidential medical data. For the purposes of availing of leave provisions under the policy for either pregnancy loss or fertility treatment leave, the employee is asked to provide a letter or certificate to DCU People. Full details of this can be found in the application process procedure.
It is important to note that DCU People utilise ‘Private Groups’ for strict data separation in order to protect the privacy of the employee. Their documentation will be held securely and confidentially on file in full compliance with GDPR and data protection guidelines.
Leave will be logged on the system in a confidential manner, using codes ‘PL’ for Pregnancy Loss and ‘FL’ for Fertility Leave. These codes will only be viewable by the employee, their line manager and relevant personnel in DCU People for processing purposes.
Outside of DCU People and your line manager, an employee will not be expected to inform any other parties within DCU, unless they wish to do so.
Requesting and Receiving Support
Below you’ll find some tips on how to navigate a disclosure to your line manager and how to effectively request support.
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Making a disclosure
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While you are not obliged to disclose the details for your absence, sharing enough context with your manager (or DCU People, if you prefer) can help them arrange appropriate leave and support in relation to pregnancy loss. Consider: choosing who you tell first (manager, DCU People, or both) and whether you want your manager to inform the wider team on your behalf so you don't have to repeat the news. You might say only "I've experienced a pregnancy loss and need some time" without further detail, and that's enough. Ask that the conversation, and any details shared, be kept confidential and only shared with others on a need-to-know basis. |
While disclosure is optional and there is no obligation to explain appointments as fertility-related if you prefer privacy, disclosing allows you the opportunity to avail of policy provisions and helps your manager to understand the unpredictability of treatment schedules (e.g., short-notice appointments, cycle-dependent timing) and plan cover accordingly. Decide in advance how much detail you're comfortable sharing, and with whom. Ask for confidentiality to be maintained. |
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Planning for support
(please also see below for Practical Workplace Adjustments)
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Discuss with your manager and/or DCU People: how much time off you need; whether a phased return or flexible working (reduced hours, remote work) would help initially; and whether you'd like a single point of contact for updates rather than fielding questions from multiple colleagues. Agree on what, if anything, colleagues will be told. Consider availing of support through DCU’s Employee Assistance Service (EAS) to support your mental health and wellbeing. Revisit the plan if you need more time as grief doesn't follow a fixed timeframe. |
Discuss with your manager: how appointments will be scheduled and whether flexible start/finish times, hybrid working, or the ability to work from home on key treatment days would help; and whether workload can be temporarily adjusted around key treatment phases (e.g., stimulation, egg collection, embryo transfer, two-week wait). Agree on how last-minute appointment changes will be communicated. Consider availing of support through DCU’s Employee Assistance Service (EAS) to support your mental health and wellbeing as fertility treatment can be physically and emotionally demanding. |
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Planning for return to work
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Before returning, agree a plan with your manager covering things such as:
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If you’ve taken a block of leave for fertility treatment, it might be useful to agree a plan with your manager covering before your return, which may include:
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Practical Workplace Adjustments
As referenced above, for those returning from a pregnancy loss or for those undergoing fertility treatment, temporary workplace adjustments may support them in navigating their experiences in the workplace. Below you’ll find some information on what flexibility or modifications may be available, bearing in mind the nature of your role and your team demands.
It is for you and your line manager to agree what will work best, based on your individual circumstances. If there are any queries and additional support needed, DCU People can also support.
Flexible Working Arrangements
- Core Hours Variance: Allowing the employee to start late or finish early to attend early morning clinic appointments without using formal leave.
- Remote Work: If their role permits, maximise work-from-home flexibility so they can manage side effects, administer medication, or grieve in the comfort of their own home.
Temporary Duty Modifications
- Physical Adjustments: If applicable, restrict heavy lifting or prolonged standing for employees undergoing egg retrieval or recovering from pregnancy loss, which can be physically demanding on the body.
- Workload Redistribution: Where feasible and taking into consideration team demands, temporarily reassign high-stress projects, tight deadlines, or intensive travel schedules to other team members to alleviate pressure in the short term.
Further Support & Resources
Internal Resources:
- Employee Assistance Service (EAS)
- DCU People Contact: Joanne Mulligan (EDI and Wellbeing Manager)
External Support:
- Miscarriage Association of Ireland: supporting those with early pregnancy loss or miscarriage
- Féileacáin (The Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Association of Ireland): supporting those who experience late-stage pregnancy loss, stillbirth, and neonatal death.
- Leanbh Mo Chroí (LMS Bereavement Support): a peer-led support group offering a safe space, online forums, and resources specifically tailored to those who have experienced pregnancy loss following a diagnosis of a fatal fetal abnormality.
- If your loss occurred in a maternity hospital, dedicated bereavement midwives and medical social workers offer specialised clinics, follow-up counselling, and immediate support, for example:
- The Rotunda Hospital: Rotunda Hospital Bereavement Services
- The National Maternity Hospital (Holles Street): NMH Bereavement Midwives & Counselling Service
- National Infertility Support and Information Group (NISIG): Ireland’s primary fertility charity. They provide 24/7 telephone support lines, regional support groups, and information on navigating both Irish clinics and treatment abroad.
- HSE Fertility Services: provides information on accessing HSE free fertility tests and treatments.
- Unspoken - The Fertility Network UK Podcast: a heartfelt podcast by Fertility Network UK, dedicated to sharing the real-life stories of individuals and couples navigating the complex world of fertility. Whether you are facing fertility struggles yourself, know someone who is, or simply want to learn more about this often overlooked aspect of reproductive health, this podcast is for you.
- DCU’s Employee Assistance Service (EAS): provides in-the-moment psychological support to those dealing with a range of issues.